Pursue Your Pivot: Remember Who You Are

I had another newsletter planned for you today, but over the past week or so, I've seen friends and acquaintances, all brilliant Black women, confronted with naysayers and microaggressions that caused them to question this brilliance. Far too many times in the workplace, we are dismissed and devalued, but please know that it is not a you problem; it's a them problem!

Not only are these attempts to make us feel small problematic in our current roles, but they also hold us back from pivoting and trying new things. They cause us to question if we will succeed based on outside opinions and influences instead of what we know to be true about our abilities. 

Sometimes, we think if we change who we are, what we do, or how we do it, we will be more palatable to those who will never like any version of us. I'm here to tell you, do not shrink for anyone! If anything, let their doubt put a battery in your back to climb to higher heights. 

So, in this edition, I want to hold space and remind you that you can do everything your heart desires. You have the courage to pivot. The intelligence to innovate. The discernment to make good decisions. You have everything in you to create the life that you want to live, starting today. 

@lucidfaders

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Shout out to Auntie Angela for the reminder!

Theory and encouragement are always good, but I like to provide actionable items you can implement to get results. So, in the spirit of remembering who you are, here are some steps that you can take to silence the critics and embrace your full potential:

1. Acknowledge Your Worth: Understand that your skills, experiences, and perspectives are unique and valuable. Embrace the qualities that make you who you are.

2. Set Bold Goals: Challenge yourself by setting big, audacious goals. Then, break them down into smaller steps and consistently work towards achieving them. Goal-setting helps you focus on your aspirations and keeps you motivated.

3. Step Out of Your Comfort Zone: Take on challenges that push your boundaries, whether trying a new activity, speaking up in meetings, or pursuing opportunities that initially seem intimidating.

4. Build a Support System: Surround yourself with a supportive network of friends, mentors, and colleagues. Seek out a tribe of people who believe in your abilities and encourage your growth.

5. Invest in Continuous Learning: Stay curious and committed to learning. Whether through formal education, workshops, or self-directed study, continuous learning enhances your skills, boosts confidence, and opens up new possibilities.

6. Practice Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Acknowledge that you may make mistakes and face challenges. Instead of dwelling on them, see them as learning opportunities and use those experiences to grow.

7. Be Bold and Share Your Ideas: Speak up and voice your opinions and ideas. Your perspectives matter, and sharing them inspires others also to move boldly.

8. Celebrate Your Achievements: Be intentional about acknowledging and celebrating your accomplishments. Let your tribe know as well so they can celebrate with you. Let me know, as I hope I'm now a part of that tribe.

9. Define Your Success: Challenge societal norms and expectations by defining success on your terms. As Black women, we know our paths don't resemble anyone else's. So, focus on what makes you fulfilled and happy.

10. Lead by Example: As you embrace your full potential, inspire others to do the same. Share your journey and offer support to those around you.

If you are looking for additional support on this journey, I highly recommend this book! Have you read it? If so, respond to this email and let me know what you thought about it.

As you work through the items above, I encourage you to shed self-doubt, embrace your uniqueness, and let your brilliance shine. The world needs your voice, ideas, and presence.